Hugs are great! Love 'em. Love giving them. Love receiving.
Unfortunately I'm super self-conscious and awkward so I don't really give them out often because I'm thinking "oh what if this person is weird about personal space" or "Man no one wants a hug from someone like me", and I am also a really big guy (about the size of a doorway or a small bear haha) so I don't think people really feel comfortable being the initiator, either.
Oh, if only they knew! Hugs for days!
Don't like back pats, though. They seem very superficial or overly sympathetic, like someone who doesn't know you well enough is like "Hang in there, champ". Just give me a hug!
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