Do you prefer to call or text?

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#1  Edited By dracula_16
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On your phone, that is. I prefer to call someone; what do you guys prefer?

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#2 uninspiredcup
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Been spammed with that many scammy Indian phone calls at this point barely turn the phone on.

So yea, text.

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#3 DEVILinIRON
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Text unless I need to talk to them immediately. Then I use voice.

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#4  Edited By SargentD
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Phone calls, I joke about this with freinds of mine. I hate texts, especially when it's family or friends. Just call me. In the time it takes people to go back n forth in a text conversation we could have talked it out in less than a minute.

I'm bringing it back, just call me

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#5 DaVillain  Moderator
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I try to do more video chat rather than calling people and I do a fair amount of texting as its more easy to say and save important message keynotes. Overall, texting more and second would be video chat. Calling people is on my last thing to do.

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#6  Edited By mrbojangles25
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I don't want to sound curmudgeonly or anything, but any significant conversation worth having is worth having in person. I don't like phone calls; as much as voice inflection might get lost in text (emoji's solve a lot of that, btw), I think having a conversation over a cel-phone is even worse.

Just text; it makes conveying info easier, and if you want a personal conversation, then let's meet up somewhere and do so.

I'm very all or anything; I want either the necessary details (via text) in a concise format, or a really nice chat (in person) where I can see your body language. I do not want a phone call.

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#7 mrbojangles25
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@uninspiredcup said:

Been spammed with that many scammy Indian phone calls at this point barely turn the phone on.

So yea, text.

Also this.

I don't think I pick up about 90% of phone calls.

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#8 comp_atkins
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depends. if I need immediate response or am somewhere where I can't text ( driving ) I'll just call. mostly though I text because it's interrupt based and I can get back to doing whatever I was doing and get back to the communication later.

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#10 ArmoredCore55
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Text most of the time. I’m quite a private person.

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#11 MirkoS77
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I despise spending time on the phone.….tell me what I need to know, then I gotta go. When communications are so distant and impersonal, it relegates it to merely information exchange. No body language, no nuance, subtlety, or any of the intricacies of human connection. It’s boring.

I do prefer text over talking, and will avoid phone conversations as much as I’m able.

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#12 PfizersaurusRex
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Depends on what I need but it's usually text. Or email if it's work related. Gives you time to think it through. A lot of times when someone calls me I say I'll have to think about it, or I'll have to check and get back to you later, or something like that. Clearly that means YOU SHOULD HAVE TEXTED!

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#13  Edited By KathaarianCode
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In my personal life always text me, unless the world is ending. Both my sisters love to call me and have long talks about every detail of their lives. And with both I got to a point where I had to tell them to stop it because I've got more interesting stuff to do than being on the phone. Make it quick or don't bother because I'm going to be unpleasant.

Unless I'm driving, than I'll just drive and pretend like I'm listening.

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#14 Litchie
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It takes longer to text, so I usually prefer to call. That way I can also hear how the person is feeling and adapt my words accordingly.

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#15 MyCatIsMilk
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This really depends on various factors. If there's an emergency or help is needed, calling is a must. Texting me when something is needed won't result in immediate action, unless I happen to be checking my phone constantly, which I don't do. Texting is more appropriate for communicating ideas, getting a point across when both parties are busy to where a call cannot be made. Texting also gives me the impression that a response isn't needed immediately, but at my own leisure. Texting can also lead to miscommunication that verbal ques wouldn't have done had we been talking via the phone.

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#17  Edited By GNS
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Depends, if its constant back and forth with texting, I'd rather just call. It takes less time in general to talk things through via phone call than via text messages. But, if it just couple of confirmations, than, sure, text.

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#18 johnd13
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Most of the time I prefer texting. It allows me to get the conversation over with faster with people I'm not in the mood to talk to.

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#19 mrbojangles25
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@gns said:

Depends, if its constant back and forth with texting, I'd rather just call. It takes less time in general to talk things through via phone call than via text messages. But, if it just couple of confirmations, than, sure, text.

Yeah I have a rule where if our conversation has gone on for more than five texts each (and we aren't doing some unimportant, .gif-heavy banter that's better with texts) then I will call.

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#20 Nirgal
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Calling is just more efficient and better at avoiding misunderstandings ( you get to hear the other person's tone).

The issue is that it takes more time and focus.

So it depends on the situation.

From my point of view, if it's important even to a minimum degree, better to call.

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#21  Edited By Sancho_Panzer
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Sorry, it's going to be another boring "It depends on the person and the situation". Each has its place.

All things being equal, I prefer to feel it out and accommodate to the other person's preference.

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#22 Kzunec
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I believe that in the modern world, phone calls are considered rude and disrespectful.
This does not apply to very urgent and serious situations.
For those who are unsure of what situation to consider serious, it is a situation where someone's life and health depend on the phone call.

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#23 Samfs
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I prefer to call, texting gets boring very fast and we can't hear peoples emotions.

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#24 Maroxad
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Phone calls if urgent, texts if otherwise.

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#25 Willy105
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For significant others, call; for literally everyone else: text.

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#26 omegaMaster
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Text

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#27 amyjackson1
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Whether I prefer to call or text depends on the specific context and my purpose for communication:

  1. Call: I prefer calling when I need to have a real-time conversation, convey complex information, or discuss something that requires immediate attention. It's often more personal and can help clarify things quickly. Calling is also my preference for catching up with friends and family as it allows for a more intimate connection.
  2. Text: Texting is my choice for quick updates, sharing links or information, and when I don't want to interrupt someone's schedule. It's great for asynchronous communication, allowing the recipient to respond at their convenience. Texting is also handy for maintaining a written record of conversations, which can be useful for reference.

In summary, my preference between calling and texting varies depending on the nature of the communication and the situation. Each method has its advantages, and I choose the one that best suits the task at hand.

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#29 Flowerdead
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Text, unless it's my GF or immediate family.

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#30 LJS9502_basic
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@amyjackson1 said:

Whether I prefer to call or text depends on the specific context and my purpose for communication:

  1. Call: I prefer calling when I need to have a real-time conversation, convey complex information, or discuss something that requires immediate attention. It's often more personal and can help clarify things quickly. Calling is also my preference for catching up with friends and family as it allows for a more intimate connection.
  2. Text: Texting is my choice for quick updates, sharing links or information, and when I don't want to interrupt someone's schedule. It's great for asynchronous communication, allowing the recipient to respond at their convenience. Texting is also handy for maintaining a written record of conversations, which can be useful for reference.

In summary, my preference between calling and texting varies depending on the nature of the communication and the situation. Each method has its advantages, and I choose the one that best suits the task at hand.

The highlighted area is my answer as well.

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#31 thehig1
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text, or what's app even, if I get a call I'll stare at the screen until it stops ringing then text them saying what do you want, then I'll decide whether I'm going to answer.

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#32  Edited By sakaiXx
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when I was younger, text. now its call and straight to point.

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#34  Edited By jacejohn
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I also prefer call rather than text.

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#35 MirkoS77
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I don’t enjoy talking on the phone past what is necessary to communicate the point. Just don’t enjoy it.

Text is preferred.

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#36 Warm_Gun
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Email.

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#37 outworld222
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Telegram…lol.